Managing Chronic Pain: Simple Steps for Relief

This article explains in accessible language how chronic pain works and how practical techniques from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and related approaches can help you gradually gain better control over pain and daily activities.

Introduction: What happens with chronic pain and how it works in the brain

Chronic pain is more than a physical complaint. Pain persists or recurs despite the healing of an injury. The brain learns to reinforce pain signals, making it feel as if pain is constant. In the brain, three key regions play a role: the somatosensory cortex, where signals from the body are processed; the amygdala, which regulates emotions such as fear and tension; and the anterior cingulate cortex, which contributes to attention, perseverance, and emotion regulation. Through repeated stimuli, these areas can become more tightly interconnected, causing pain to feel more intense and frequent. With targeted exercises and a kind, structured approach you can influence how your brain responds to pain.

What treatment methods exist and what do they mean for you

With chronic pain you can choose from several approaches. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, known as ACT, focuses on accepting pain as part of life and choosing meaningful activities despite pain. Cognitive Functional Therapy helps you interpret pain signals more accurately and break patterns. Pain-focused cognitive behavioral therapy combines thoughts and behaviors so you experience less fear and tension around pain. In plain language, the goal is to spend less energy trying to remove pain and more on learning how to live the best possible life with pain.

The four tools for daily use

The four practical tools are: Pain acceptance, attention shift, values-based action, and relaxation. Pain acceptance means recognizing that pain can be present and not tying it to failure or a shortcoming. Attention shift involves directing your focus to something other than pain; this could be breathing, a touch, or a simple task. Values-based action is taking small actions that align with what matters to you, such as connecting with loved ones, work, or a hobby. Relaxation includes techniques like progressive muscle relaxation and breathing exercises that reduce tension and lower heart rate. Regularly applying these four tools can reduce tension and restore a sense of control.

Practical application in your daily life

Start with a simple daily routine: pause for a moment to notice what you feel and name it without judgment; take five calm breaths with a slow exhale; choose a meaningful action that is feasible today and carry it out. Do this daily and gradually build it up. Remember that the somatosensory cortex keeps processing pain signals, but the amygdala and the anterior cingulate cortex can learn to soften the reaction. The goal is not to become pain-free, but to improve living with pain. If the pain suddenly increases or if there are other medical concerns, consult a doctor or therapist. With patience and consistency you can gradually achieve a better quality of life.

– door Lou KnowsYou, psycholoog & trainer in gedragsverandering

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